1. Own your badassness.
you are exceptional, and you know it. share yourself only where appropriate in order to stave off confusion/negativity.
2. Be yourself, unabashedly.
you are an introvert. feel free to celebrate and indulge that quality about yourself; it’s just the way you are. instruct people on how to take you, and hold them responsible for the knowledge you’ve shared. their reactions to your quirkiness will show you where to place them in your life.
3. Assert yourself proactively.
be upfront, and speak the truth early and often. call people out when you need to, regardless of how they’ll respond. you can handle whatever they’re bringing; you’re on some other level shit.
4. Direct your energy.
"if you don’t like something, change it. if you can’t change it, change your attitude." your mind is the master of your universe. keep it positive, expansive, and serene.
5. Take the lead.
navigate your own path, and invite only those who contribute positively along for the ride. you have always been a leader, never a follower…keep it that way. you are going places, and anyone who is on board with you will reap benefits from the seeds you’re planting.
6. Only make love.
pretty much every guy who crosses your path wants to put his dick in you. look before you leap…you’re too rich for the blood of most of them. do not fuck around with lames or player types. patiently wait until you find a compatible grown man who respects and values you, then make love with him.
7. Love the haters.
many people, especially women, will envy you. their jealousy will influence the way they receive and treat you. expect this, and treat them kindly anyway.
8. Respect all life.
we are all part of one organism, and we each have a significant function within it. every living thing is worthy of respect.